Deciding to divorce is a difficult decision. But while some couples hash things out in nasty contested divorce proceedings, there is another option if you and your soon-to-be ex wish to settle your divorce outside of court.
In this case, a collaborative divorce might be a good option for you. Collaborative divorce allows you to problem solve outside of the courtroom through mediation and other negotiation techniques. Staying out of the courts can save you a lot of physical, mental and emotional strain. In addition to this, collaborative divorce has several other benefits.
Court divorces can be extremely costly, not to mention the court process can be long and drawn out. You could end up spending thousands of dollars over months of stressful court proceedings. In a collaborative divorce, on the other hand, you can settle your divorce faster and put your money towards the things that matter to you.
When you use collaborative methods to settle your divorce, you and your spouse and your respective attorneys can meet in an informal space to communicate openly and honestly with one another. The environment is far less confrontational than in a court, and even if you do come to a disagreement, you can settle it without having to go through the sometimes-lengthy method of formally filing a complaint.
You have more control over the outcome in a collaborative divorce. In your sessions, you can voice your wishes and suggestions and work with your spouse to come up with a solution that works for both of you. Even when you don’t necessarily agree on certain subjects, a collaborative divorce can allow you and your spouse to find compromises rather than have a judge make the final decision.
All divorces come with their own issues. But if you and your spouse wish to work together to find resolutions that satisfy everyone’s wishes, a collaborative divorce is a way in which you can effectively settle your divorce and move forward with your life.